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The iPad For Families

a little girl using a drawing app on an iPadBeing a tech geek, and having earned some disposable income, I bought an iPad.  This has been cause for much discussion and anticipation around our house, not only from me, but from the little geeklings I am raising.  My 11 year-old has actually been saying he is *sure* I will need the 3G model, in hopes the wifi-only model gets handed down to him, and this was before the thing was even in our hands.

Let me preface this by saying we have an equal number of PCs and Macs in the house.  The kids both have iPods- essentially both have an iPod touch- one an iPod touch, and one an older, device only-no phone iPhone.  They’ve given up their Nintendo DS and games for their iPods, in a transition that left one child, the younger, completely satisfied, and the older slightly grumpy.  (I am, however, entirely pleased- no more expensive games they get tired of after a few days, or worse,lost or sent through the wash; more uses for the thing, and easier (and cheaper!) to give them iTunes cards as a reward than new games for Nintendo.)  Given this background, we are technogeeks  and have more than a glancing appreciation for the wonders of the App Store.

The iPhone has been great for me, and my husband bought one for himself a short time later.  The phone’s AT&T connectivity has frequently been mediocre, but every other aspect- email, photos, video on the fly, applications, tools- that’s what makes the iPhone special.  From our first iPhone, we’ve found that having a few fun games on the thing has kept kids happy while waiting in line, waiting for dinner, waiting for an appointment- you name it.  My husband and I will hand over our phones to our kids, their cousins, or other kids at the table, and they have a great time while we get to talk like adults.  This is not to say I don’t want the children to engage with us at the table, and all devices go off during the meal, but it does make everyone more patient while waiting, including me.

So the iPad entered our lives with this as the background.

The 11 year-old came with me to the store, excited by the very act of opening the box.  While we would have to wait until we got home to sync the device (we decided to do that rather than do it at the store), nonetheless, John figured out how to take a screen shot in the first few minutes.  Having the experience of the iPod Touch and iPhone already, they had all the training they needed for the iPad.  It’s largely the same thing, with a much bigger and prettier screen.

This seems like something easy to dismiss as trivial, but it’s not.  The iPad is not only pretty, it’s fast.  It’s a perfect way to look something up on the web, on your lap, and less socially intrusive than a laptop, which seems to divide the user from the rest of the people in the room. You can check email, for the workaholics, without looking like a jerk.   You can watch movies and they are gorgeous, like having a small TV with you at all times, and of course, it takes all the content we already have purchased for our other i-devices.  (Hurray for that!)

My older son has a Kindle, being a bookaholic.  He uses it, but not nearly as much as I think I anticipated.  The iPad takes the ebook reading experience to the next level.  The iBook app makes an ebook feel more like a real book, and even the Kindle app for the iPad is a vast improvement over the Kindle and its relatively clunky interface.  We’ve also had 2 Kindle screens go bad on us so far, making me less than thrilled with Kindle’s workmanship or durability, but ever so glad with Amazon’s replacement policy.

I honestly think as more and more books, and hopefully textbooks become available for the iPad, this may become the replacement for a backpack full of books, which would be a godsend to parents, teachers and students everywhere, even if some chiropractors will weep as a result.  Ebooks can be re-downloaded, never get lost or damaged, fit easily in your locker,and you can’t forget them at school.  What a blessing that will be.  I get all excited just thinking how much easier it will be choosing backpacks and crossing off bookcovers on that back-to-school school supply list.  So long, bathing suit-like book covers! There’s also a few great flashcard apps that should be worthwhile to help kids study and memorize stuff that’s simply necessary for school.

There’s hardly a need to even discuss the beauty of the Marvel Comic Books app, and how the boy’s heart goes pitter pat for that alone.

The games for the iPad are fun and engaging for kids, and all the old iPod apps work as well, although some of them “upsize” strangely. (Old iPod applications can be made larger, or be played at original size in the center of the iPad screen.  I’m eager to see what games come out, and I’m impressed by how many there are already for little kids, who I am sure will take to this device like a duck to water.

In our house, the iPad will become the de facto travel entertainment device.  No more dragging the portable DVD player everywhere.  The 10 hour battery life will blow all of those old players out of the water, and do away with carrying around plastic discs that are easily scratched for good.  The ability to stream movies through Netflix is amazing as well.  There will be no need for a separate gaming device, because the iPad takes care of that.  They can draw and color.  They can do homework through the Keynote (think powerpoint) app and the Pages (think Microsoft Word) app.  They can listen to music.  They can read.  They can play games.

For parents, the Epicurious app can act as a cookbook, and there are “vooks” that have video added into the book, to even be a cookbook with a cooking show combined.

I love the iPad for myself.  I love for what it might become for learning, including all the friction and hassles it will solve for us.  I love the fact that I am free of carrying around plastic discs (Cd’s, DVD’s, or even cartridges) which eventually get damaged and ruined and have exchanged it for the hassle free storage of electrons.  I care more about the content, and less and less on the physical form or package it comes in.  And electronic content is cheaper, although we consume more of it, because it is cheap and it’s easy to give in to impulse purchases.  For example, my brother had generously given me a $100 iTunes card for Christmas and my birthday.  I spent almost all of it in buying new apps and content including books for the iPad already.  The good news is I got everything I wanted in that budget.

The iPad is a great family device, and may be a glimpse of what’s in store for our children and education in the next few years.  I’m certainly happy, and not eager to unload any of our Apple stock as a result of my experience with iPad.  The only question that remains is when will we knuckle under and buy another one.

by Whitney Hoffman

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Day 25

a wall calendarWe’re 25 days into 2010. 25 days into our resolutions.

Rob and I sat down today and reviewed our financial and family goals. We committed them to paper. We scheduled our next meeting.

We asked ourselves, what are we doing today to meet tomorrow’s goals?

And now I’ll ask you: What are you doing today to meet tomorrow’s goals?

If you haven’t sat down and written down your goals for today- for this week- for this month- for this year, I highly recommend it. Highly.

I’ll also pass along just a couple of inspiring money blogs/sites for some inspiration:

The Simple Dollar
Spendster

Hope you’re on track in 2010.

by Megin Hatch

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Lights Out

a rain spattered windowWe’ve been having some weather here in SoCal these past few weeks. Interesting to get weather here, as we normally have a steady 72º and Sunny. This new weather consists of gentle rain, with the occasional gusts of wind. The past 24 hours brought us more of this new weather, expanded, with heavier rain and gusts up to 35mph or so. Mostly a neato experience, especially for our daughter, who loves, loves, loves the rain.

However, there was a slight hiccup: Sunday, mid-day, as the winds picked up, a large bit of storm debris brought down a nearby power line, and our neighborhood was thrust into darkness. Well, it was mid-day, so maybe not darkness. But the house sure went quiet, with all our electronic gizmos asleep.

So there we were, four humans in search of path out of the boredom. Enter: The “Family Guy” version of Monopoly. Many, many hours later, our daughter was declared the winner – we all did the math and realized that no matter what numbers the dice produced, none of us would escape her Donald Trump-like grasp.

It was absolutely lovely, one of those blessed moments that balance everything out. And when the power came back on, we kept playing, laughing, chatting… Best part: We called a brief break so I could start dinner, and during the break, I overheard our two kids (normally mortal enemies) forming an alliance, creating a strategy to beat us. That was a genuine slice of heaven indeed.

More weather is coming, and we may lose power again over the next day or so. I won’t mind.


by Stu Mark


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Grandparents

Time, they say, heals all wounds. While I don’t think this applies for every situation I do know that there is some truth to the statement. Five years ago we brought our daughters home from the hospital on Thanksgiving day. They had been born premature at 30 weeks gestation (which is 10 weeks too soon). They had spent 7 weeks in the Neonatal ICU and we were so excited to get the call to bring them home on the holiday.

Everyone was at our house anxiously awaiting the call from the hospital. The turkey was in the oven and the holiday spirit was in the air. My relationship with the in-laws was tense, to say the least. Things got worse in the days following our happy event. At one point I was ready to leave my husband because of the in-law situation.

My husband and I worked though our issues with the help of a counselor. Also, I think reading my book, Tiny Toes, gave him a new perspective into our relationship and that with the in-laws. I spent many hours in the counselors office working through my own childhood issues that were impacting me as an adult. Slowly the relationship between me and the in-laws improved.

It is funny how time can change things. This year they arrived a couple of days before Thanksgiving and I was happy to see them. I actually enjoy their company. Even more, though, I have to admit I love watching my girls enjoying time with Grandpa and Grandma. It truly fills my heart with joy.

I want my daughters to have a close relationship with their grandparents. It is something that I really never had and always wished it had been different. We would visit family about once-per-year. I didn’t get to hear stories about what it was like for my grandmothers when they were growing up. In fact, there are too many family secrets on my side of the family. So, I am encouraging the relationship between the grandparents (both sets) and my daughters. And hopefully when my girls have their families they will do the same.

What are some of the wonderful memories you have with your parents and your children?

by Kelly Damron

Time Economy And Cookies

a bright yellow cooking timer with a face painted on itThe oatmeal raisin cookie recipe that I use says, “Bake for 10-12 minutes”.

When I bake cookies, I play the role of efficiency expert. I carefully plan my paths (my cooking triangle is dysfunctional) getting out and putting away ingredients along the way. By the time I add the raisins, most of my ingredients are put away and much of the mess already cleaned up. I’m ready for the next stage of efficiency with scooping, cooking trays and cooling racks.

I only recently noticed this about my baking habit. I get quite a bit of amusement from both the determination my subconscious has contributed to my baking life, and the results of a fairly clean kitchen.

During a recent baking spree, my four year old was entertaining another four year old. They were having a difficult time getting along. So as I put one tray of cookies into the oven, I grabbed a compilation of Beatrix Potter and sat them down to read. We read Peter Rabbit, complete with voices, dramatic pauses, and conversation about some of the beautiful illustrations. Satisfied and settled down the girls were off to play, and I stood up to go check on my cookies which were surely ready to come out soon.

Six minutes remained on the timer. Six minutes. We had read, Read not breezed through quickly, a whole story. Not a Sandra Boynton (though I LOVE her), but a Beatrix Potter. And I had six minutes left.

As I have begun to use a timer for some of my other household chores, I have been continually amazed at how my perceptions about time are so askew. There are so many chores that I put off knowing that I ‘don’t have the time’ only to find that they are completed easily and quickly.

The Cookie Bake was another opportunity for learning the truth about time. How many times do I miss the opportunity to fully engage with my kids or husband because I perceive that “I don’t have enough time”. In an era of time consciousness and management, of boundaries and careful planning, maybe our premium commodity has become a little inflated. Instead of remembering the value of a penny, let’s remember the value of a minute, or six. Let’s stimulate our families, and start spending.

Now, pass the cookies.


by Emily Pitman


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